Fr. Dale Matson
In 2011 I wrote about the
problem of unemployment for older Christians in the workforce using myself as
an example. http://sanjoaquinsoundings.blogspot.com/2011/02/lose-your-job-god-has-other-plans.html.
Recently the issue of unemployment for older adults was addressed in a New York
Times article by Alina Tugend (July 26, 2013). http://www.nytimes.com/2013/07/27/your-money/unemployed-and-older-and-facing-a-jobless-future.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1
Although Alina herself, is
in the vulnerable age demographics of many unemployed, her pedigree of degrees from Yale
and U.C. Berkley and current job with the N.Y. Times will probably insulate her
from the fate of so many others her age who cannot find employment.
If I were
looking for helpful suggestions on finding employment from her article, I would
not be encouraged or comforted. “For those over 50 and unemployed, the
statistics are grim.” She quoted Nadya Fouad of U.W. Milwaukee. “Helping people
figure out how to cope with a future that may not include work, while at the
same time encouraging them in their job searches, is a difficult balance.”
Where is the hope in a statement like that? Don’t you think that would be
double minded advice at some level?
Calling yourself “semiretired”
may be a way of coping according to the article but ultimately it is nothing more
than denial. "And even more, 'they should know the problem is not with them but
with a system that has treated them like a commodity that can be discarded,' said David L. Blustein." Calling yourself a victim will not help either.
One gets the sense that
Alina is treating unemployment of older folks as someone on the outside looking
in. Unemployment is not some unmentionable disease contracted by the lower
classes and those with limited skills. Her understanding is more like my young family doctor
who tells me that my arthritic pain is a normal part of aging. So just accept
it?
Those in the article, who
counsel job seekers, tend to see a job as a means of identity formation and sustenance.
“Is it the high social status? The identity? The relationship with co-workers?
It is important to examine these areas, perhaps with the help of a professional
counselor, Professor Fouad said, to discover how to find such meaning or
relationships in other areas of life.”
How about this advice from the Triathlete Scott Tinley instead?
“Your job determines how you live. What you do away from your job determines
who you are.”
When I interviewed
returning adults for the Masters/Credential School Psychology and School
Counseling programs at Fresno Pacific University, I hoped for a sense of service
to others and particularly, Christ in others. These were older adults who had
not found their niche, were burned out in other professions, were not
challenged any longer or wanted a job with meaning. We actually had two bartenders
retrain as School Psychologists. Their crisis was a life crossroad.
I was
disappointed when the first questions to me were, “How much money can I make?”
or How soon can I get out of the program?” I encouraged those folks to find
other paths for retraining.
As someone who has been
there, treating the job search as a
spiritual task is my best advice. As Christians we are called in our final
Eucharistic prayer “And now, Father, send us out to do the work you have given
us to do, to love and serve you as faithful witnesses of Christ our Lord.” (BCP
366) What is God calling you to do? Don’t look at it with limitations “...For
man this is impossible but with God, all
things are possible (Matthew 19:26).
Above all, don’t be
discouraged. In my preparation for my transition from an unemployed skilled
worker to a reemployed professional, my continuing consolation from God was, “I can do all
things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13). Biblical abundance does
not mean being rich. It means having enough. I retrained for the Priesthood beginning at age 60. I had lots of jobs and three great careers. I had been led to each one by God.
As a suggested devotional
during your search, read Voices of the Saints by Bert Ghezzi. I will not
say, “Good luck.” I will say, “God speed!”
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