Last Sunday, in 1 Corinthians 3:1-10, St. Paul modeled a
leadership quality that really jumped out at me: The Ability to Speak the Truth
in Love and
But I, brothers, I could not address you as spiritual
people, but as people of the flesh, as infants in Christ. 2 I fed you with
milk, not solid food, for you were not ready for it. And even now you are not
yet ready, 3 for you are still of the flesh. For while there is jealousy and
strife among you, are you not of the flesh and behaving only in a human way? 4
For when one says, “I follow Paul,” and another, “I follow Apollos,” are you
not being merely human?
Well, Paul has a way of speaking directly to the people… “I
fed you with milk, not solid food, for you were not ready for it. And even now
you are not yet ready, for you are still of the flesh.”
Paul was telling them that a mature faith isn’t necessarily
bound to chronological progression. Paul had been gone for three years from
Corinth, and he’s saying, “Look, when I was there and you were brand new
Christians I had to feed you the Milk of faith, because you were not mature
enough to handle the meat of faith. Now, three years later, though you consider
yourselves quite grown up I still have to feed you Milk. Just look at your
actions – you are not mature, you are still of the FLESH.” How did Paul know
they were living in the Flesh? Because there was jealousy, division, and strife
in their midst.
The leadership principle that Paul is demonstrating here is
that of Speaking the Truth in Love! So often, leaders in the church fail to
lead. They will tell people what they want to hear, rather than what they need
to hear; the desire to be liked is so strong. As a result, we don’t tell people
the truth for fear of offending or being disliked. For example, perhaps a friend is going
through a rough patch in her marriage. You note that she starts flirting a
great deal with a mutual friend. You know she’s trying to compensate for the
troubles in her marriage, but you also know that the man she’s flirting with
does not know that – or really care. Does the Christian Leader point out her
behavior and warn her of temptation and the evil that can potentially result if
she carries on with her flirtatious attitude? Or do we wait – hope and pray –
that she won’t cross over from flirtation to action?
St. Paul is clear to say: we speak the truth. This does not
mean that we are rude or heartless, but as Paul writes to the Ephesians:
“Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him
who is the head, into Christ” (Ephesians 4:15)
As we go through transitions in our churches – either the
normal transitions of time, or the ones that have been forced upon us through
misfortune – the temptation to act out, feel slighted, take offense, or offend,
can be very great. I pray that we will love one another enough to take St.
Paul’s cue and speak the truth in love.
The Lord bless you all this week!
Thirty-nine
Articles of Religion
XIV. Of Works of
Supererogation
Voluntary Works besides, over and above, God's Commandments,
which they call Works of Supererogation, cannot be taught without arrogancy and
impiety: for by them men do declare, that they do not only render unto God as
much as they are bound to do, but that they do more for his sake, than of
bounden duty is required: whereas Christ saith plainly When ye have done all
that are commanded to you, say, We are unprofitable servants.
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